Limited Edition Pink Jar - October - December only
Like many of you, our family has been directly affected by breast cancer. My mother, one of the strongest women I know is a breast cancer survivor. Her sister, my aunt, succumbed to the disease at the age of 34, leaving behind two small girls and her loving husband. The tragedy is, it’s one of the most treatable cancers if caught early enough. Education is key. This year Clear My Head is proud to be a part of Breast Cancer Awareness Month with our limited edition PINK jar. We’ll donate a portion of each sale to the National Breast Cancer Foundation for each Pink jar sold beginning in October and through December.
We believe as Spa owners and professionals that we have a unique role in the way women feel about themselves. I remember the first time a client came in for her regular massage and told me ‘the news’. It was obvious she was shattered and devastated. And now, I was telling her, until she was in remission that I could not perform her deep tissue massage that she had some to rely on. In essence, the one place she felt safe and accepting about her body for years, was ‘unavailable’ to her. Of course we sat down with a cup of tea and talked about what she was going through. We talked about the type of massage she could receive, with the permission of her doctor. We came up with other wonderful spa ‘treats’ that were safe for her and that could continue to support her. I remember the day she came in with her scarf over her head (she refused to wear a wig, but somehow this suited her) and we mixed up some lotions for her. I remember too, the day she called up and bubbled over with joy that she had her doctors note for massage therapy because she was in remission.
I remember the woman in Hospice that I brought ‘Compassionate Touch’ to. The women receiving chemotherapy and the gentle hand massages we gave – they were comforted by our touch. I remember the faces of the women at the support groups I would give presentations to – a close knit group, a secret club no one wanted to sign up for, but yet they grew together with strength and compassion. A family in their fight to survive. I still see many of them today and smile they have come through the other side or still continue the fight.
I remember another client as well. I called on her at her home, as a favor to a long time regular client. As a rule, I don’t go to homes for massage therapy, but my client told me this woman was in her last stages of Breast Cancer and was sent home to die. So I went. I was surprised that she lived one block behind me. I hadn’t know her before. I remember walking in and being afraid I would say the wrong thing, I was fearful also, because the week before I had discovered a lump on my own breast and was awaiting the results. (It turned out to be nothing.) But what I remember the most was her GRACE, her STRENGTH, and her DIGNITY. I was in the grace of God. She was selfless and loving and seemed at peace with what was happening, although she struggled with leaving her family. She shared with me a life well lived, of trials and tribulations, of how even in her final days she was going to be present for her family. She asked, when was my last mammogram and I told her last week. ‘Everything fine?’ she said. “I don’t know’ I replied, feeling guilty – and now I understand how inappropriate that feeling was, because she took my hands in hers and said – ‘It will be alright, and if it’s not, you do the best with your life as you can.’ I left that appointment with a gift, no doubt about it. One that I try to keep in my heart daily. I called on her twice again in her last two weeks of life, feeling privileged to have had the time with her. She insisted on booking an appointment for her husband to see me after she passed on, and I promised that when I worked on him it would be my hands and her heart I would bring to the table. It was also one of the most sacred sessions in my long career as a massage therapist. I know she was present with us.
I tell you these things because I hope that you will reflect too on the people in your life and how much they mean to you. We have no guarantees about tomorrow, but we do have the power to change to world with the kindness, thoughtfulness and care we show the people around us. Take care of yourself. Be good to yourself. Be kind and forgiving to those around you. Change can start with you.
Clear My Head is sold in spas across the USA and Canada. We felt it was time to do something that can help all women, so this year will be the launch of our national fundraising campaign. We’ll donate a portion of sales of every jar sold between October and December to the National Breast Cancer Foundation. 80% of all the monies raised by the NBCF goes to their mission to save lives through early detection and to provide mammograms for those in need by increasing awareness through education, providing diagnostic breast care services for those in need, and providing nurturing support services.
Please help us by:
Visiting The National Breast Cancer Foundation’s Web Site at The National Breast Cancer Foundation and learning more, pledging a mammogram or donating directly through their site.
Ask your spa or salon to carry the Pink Jars to help raise money for research – we want to partner and develop events the month of October. A portion of sales for every pink jar will be donated to the NBCF by Clear My Head Ltd. The jars have our signature product with an etched logo of the National Breast Cancer Foundation – perfect for gifting from the heart and raising awareness. We don’t require you to send in boxtops or click on surveys. We want to make it simple to raise as much for this worthy organization as we can. This is our first year, hopefully of many more to come.
Look for other Pink products and support charitable giving through thoughtful purchases.
Join a run, walk or another event to raise money and awareness. Better yet – start one! One of my friends decided last year to have a ‘Pink Sips for the Cure’ wine tasting at a local wine shop – just by word of mouth she had 60 women attend and raised over $1,250.00 in two hours. She was a great inspiration to me to go forward with this campaign.
Let us know your stories too – remember your loved ones here – tell us stories of hope. Let us know what YOU are doing . Let’s join together, let’s start today!